What makes us trust others?

I explored this question with a trusted colleague, Sudeep Chhabra, a leadership development expert with over 26 years of experience, based in India. We framed the conversation around the Trust Equation developed by Maister, D. H., Green, C. H., & Galford, R. M.* 

In the version of the model that I use in my work, there are four key components of trust: 

  • Credibility (truthfulness and credentials: I trust what they say about…
  • Reliability (dependability and predictability: I trust them to)
  • Connection (discretion, empathy, and risk-taking:  I trust them with…) 
  • Self-orientation (motives, attention: I trust that they care about…; self-orientation is negatively related to trust – less of it means more trust)

The model is universal, but cultural differences play out in two ways: 

  • The importance of each component
  • The behaviours that signal trustworthiness in each of them

If you want to see specific examples and learn how to adapt your behaviour to build trust with colleagues from relationship-based cultures like India, listen to our conversation on Spotify, Apple Podcast or YouTube.

 

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Invitation for you

What about you? What makes you trust others? I invite you to reflect on the following questions:

  • How important is each component of the Trust Equation in your professional collaborations? Are they all equally essential, or are some more significant than others? Why?  
  • Credibility: What makes you trust what someone says? 
  • Reliability: What behaviours make someone seem reliable to you?
  • Connection: What makes you trust someone with something? What makes you feel connected to someone? 
  • Self-orientation: What makes you trust that someone cares? What makes someone seem as though they care about your interests?


* Trust Equation adapted from Maister, D. H., Green, C. H., & Galford, R. M. (2000). The Trusted Advisor. Free Press. In the original version of the model, “Connection” is called “Intimacy.”

 

Anna Kostecka (she / her)

Managing Director at What Works. She is a globally-minded Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) strategist with 15+ years of experience supporting organizations around the world on their DEI journey.